"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Intellince and Emotion

HollowHorizon

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A while back ago, a girl i would say a hb8 wanted to have sex with me and she pointed out that it had somthing to do with how emotional i was and it turned her on, for example how i would use words and veiw things etc. Now i feel like im an ******* always arrogant and rude, i tend to joke when i shoulden't. You see i cant seem to find words and the point of views i used to have, my vocabulary went to ****.....Any way i could improve????




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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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erase your concepts, become caring again, hang with friends and try not to be too arrogant with them... and than ask this question... You are in a rut, and you need to go back to your roots and realize what you are doing.

I hope somebody else will guess though, it will be so much easier than. For my case, it is the opposite, I am too caring and emotional, I need to become hard assed and direct, damned this information age...
 

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PS what is intellince and what does it have to do with your topic?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think he's talking about emotional maturity as well as being intelligent in terms of up to his level.


Ie. My IQ is 140, from this post I am going to assume the poster's IQ is from 100-120. I would not get along with him in person because I'd crush him with my intellectual prowess but emotionally he's probably better. This is where emotional intelligence makes a bigger difference because everyone is a social creature. I'd prefer to date a girl that had an IQ higher than 120 but not higher than mines, I'd also prefer to date a woman that was emotionally mature as I am. It's okay, people who are under 21 are dumb emotionally and intellectually. Well some of them intellectually.

Emotional intelligence is about being responsible for your feelings as well as being assertive at understanding other emotions.
 
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Holy fvck for such a smart boy you sure do mess up a lot in English. Please tell me it isn't your first language. ;) Anyways, I guess all of this talk about crushing someone with your "intellectual prowess" is just overcompensation, you know like the guy who claims to have a 12 inch penis but actually has a 2 inch:D. But oh well, at least he doesn't want a girl with an IQ higher than, as he so eloquently put it, "mines." That might be too much. :p Aber ej, vielleicht kannst du auch Deutsch und du wolltest halt "meins" sagen. Geil! Du kannst Denglisch! Anyways buddy I'm going to end this post becuase I am under 21 and by your flawless logic I must be "dumb emotionally and intellectually." Because God knows all people under 21 are dumb as rocks. :p
 
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