Intelligence is not sexy - power is

[JohnyTheArrow]

One of biggest mistake many men (including me) was doing is not accepting the fact intelligence or being intelligent IS NOT SEXY or even attractive.It is interesting or enterteining when needed but it is not sexy.Beta men cannot understand why women arent interested in their intelligence or intelligent topic and answer is intelligence is only sexy when it pours into power.So your PhD or whatever isnt going to give you any ***** until this PhD gives you status or money which are both show off of power.

Dont bother dragging females into long, 'intelligent' converstations, its brutal, but its pointless, most women will not react to it as it is not emotional.For them you are like talking computer, they will nod their heads and think OMFG what a boring dude.Thats why nerds dont get laid.They didnt figure out how to change intelligence into power.

If your most bad ass card is : 'Im intelligent' you are fvcked.Never consider intelligence for something, for most women its actually minor thing.They will prefer dumb but tall or well built or charismatic or rich (power power power) dude over Mr Smart.

If your intelligence doesnt give you any power dont boast it to women - its useless card.

 

[Mike32ct]

I agree completely. Nothing to add.

 

[themusicman]

Use intelligence to get power. Start a business, get a bada$$ job with a great paycheck, etc. You shouldn't act like a caveman to try and get girls. Intelligence is sexy AS LONG AS it's wrapped in an alpha, action oriented personality.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Well said. An intelligent beta nerd is about as sexy as a pile of horse apples.

 

[skinnyguy]

A man's intelligence is inversely related to his sex appeal.

 

[WorkHardPlayHard]

A man's intelligence is inversely related to his sex appeal.

Way too sweeping of a statement.

You definitely need to be in her ballpark lookswise to even set up a first date. However, depending how much she values wit, how smart/funny she is, mixed with how smart you can potentially launch you into something good.

 

[WorkHardPlayHard]

You're right, but if you're smart and well versed in knowledge you can use it to be attractive without power. The best way to do this is wit. As long as you can combine intelligence and humor, watch out folks, we have an attractive man.
Now this intelligence obviously isnt supposed to be nerdy PhD type of stuff, no. Just lots and lots of common knowledge, and VOCABULARY. Just knowing what an objects name is, not using massive words.

Obviously if a guy thinks showing off his PhD on a date will turn the forecast rainy then he has other issues he needs to handle first.

Didn't read your comment before mine, but I couldn't agree more. It's wit. It's being smart, but socially competent, making her laugh, making the server/bartender laugh, defusing awkward situations, creating awesome situations.

If you're dumb, you better be good-looking and/or rich, or you're probably ****ed.

 

[backseatjuan]

Back in the day, when people were monkeys and lived in the jungle, there was just one guy, an alpha male, that could fvck all the girls, and no one else had a chance at it, there was simply no way. If you tried to fvck someone, you'd immediately get beaten up by the alpha male. But then two friends had an intelligent idea! One went up to the alpha male and slapped him real hard and ran away. Alpha male chased him all over jungle that entire day, while the other guy fvcked the whole herd. That is how intelligence prevailed over power. That day a male solidarity was born.


*She does not engages her emotions when she uses her left brain*

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Back in the day, when people were monkeys and lived in the jungle, there was just one guy, an alpha male, that could fvck all the girls, and no one else had a chance at it, there was simply no way. If you tried to fvck someone, you'd immediately get beaten up by the alpha male. But then two friends had an intelligent idea! One went up to the alpha male and slapped him real hard and ran away. Alpha male chased him all over jungle that entire day, while the other guy fvcked the whole herd. That is how intelligence prevailed over power. That day a male solidarity was born.


*She does not engages her emotions when she uses her left brain*

True alpha between human beings must be intelligent to be alpha.Alpha has leadership and you cant be leader without being intelligent.

Most people have IQ around 100 which means they arent that smart, but it is enough.Now as civilization grows, more smart people are needed for system to grow - intelligence - isnt needed for sexiness.Actually there reports less intelligent people enjoy sex more because they think less in bed.

For a woman 'dumb' is relative, if he is dominant, leadership role,strong character,intimidating ... she will not even notice.

In fact ... she may enjoy such man much more because he is easier to control and yet he delivers resources.

 

[ChemGod]

You're right, but if you're smart and well versed in knowledge you can use it to be attractive without power. The best way to do this is wit. As long as you can combine intelligence and humor, watch out folks, we have an attractive man.
Now this intelligence obviously isnt supposed to be nerdy PhD type of stuff, no. Just lots and lots of common knowledge, and VOCABULARY. Just knowing what an objects name is, not using massive words.

Obviously if a guy thinks showing off his PhD on a date will turn the forecast rainy then he has other issues he needs to handle first.

Lol I could not agree more. If being intelligent is repulsing girls, that is not your only problem. They wouldnt have liked you anymore if you were an idiot anyway. Being smart cannot hurt you at all. Just dont be boring. OP seems to suggest that being intelligent and boring are the same thing - they arent. Personally, I think intelligence is one of my best features. People look to me to lead them because it seems I am always right and I always know what to do. Even when I dont, they follow.

 

[Trump]

One of biggest mistake many men (including me) was doing is not accepting the fact intelligence or being intelligent IS NOT SEXY or even attractive.It is interesting or enterteining when needed but it is not sexy.Beta men cannot understand why women arent interested in their intelligence or intelligent topic and answer is intelligence is only sexy when it pours into power.So your PhD or whatever isnt going to give you any ***** until this PhD gives you status or money which are both show off of power.

If your most bad ass card is : 'Im intelligent' you are fvcked.Never consider intelligence for something, for most women its actually minor thing.They will prefer dumb but tall or well built or charismatic or rich (power power power) dude over Mr Smart.

If your intelligence doesnt give you any power dont boast it to women - its useless card.

Well OK, but if you given the power through inheritance or luck or connections, but are not intelligent, you will lose it in 8 seconds.

It all depends on the person. I know people in positions of power who are really dumb, I know PhD guys who could run a corporation but are never given the chance, I know rich and powerful CEOs who have absolutely no idea how to run a company, yet they own their jet.

No girl is going to be that turned on by power that was given to you without you earning it. Without earning it and understanding how the game works, it will be taken away from you.

It's all relative.

 

[mangotot]

Being a bad a$$ is far importance then intelligence.

 

[skinnyguy]

Being a bad a$$ is far importance then intelligence.

Yes.

Complete toolbags with tattoos clean up and generally get the hottest women.

 

[nismo-4]

Intelligence is a gray area trait of men.

It's only sexy if the woman you're going for thinks you're sexy.

Hell, anything on a man seems to be sexy when the woman thinks you're sexy and bangable!

 

[BrainDamage92]

It all comes down to looks and balls and hitting the right moment in the end if you want to bed a girl. Many women will tell you they dont choose men for looks but they be BSing you. Lighter types with blond hair and bright eyes fall for darker types and in reverse in both sexes and this is freakin inevitable. I notice the girls who like me most (well some exceptions ok) are always with darker complexion but bright eyes. Couse my skin is pretty pale and my hair and eyes are brown. Its all very much like that.

And from then on its the flirting game. The common case is, you play your cards right but miss the timing and then you blew it. Its the hardest part hitting the timing, and least for me, and there are always other factors involved, where are you, who else is around you etc...

Also the old rule about chasing and being chased applies - Im in the mood and start a firt, bam, I get shot down. On the contrary when Im minding my own bussiness and not interested in flirting the girl gets wet instantly. I guess this is called acting aloof, but its really hard for me to fake, I was all like that in my more virgin years, couse I didnt really know what to say\do, but now Im pretty smooth and that means initiating which sometimes plays a bad trick on you. Actually I know girls wouldnt mind virgin, half-virgin, or almost virgin guys hah, I got a friend he always plays the "Im a virgin" card and gets laid with it I mean... boy... are women dumb...

It doesnt take money for you to bed them, it takes money for you (at least a steady job and a car) for you to be considered a beta provider. And we dont want that now do we? But of course being completely broke is bad couse you cant do ****, not only with women, but in general.

 

[:-)]

Never have I heard so much horse sh1t in my life. Coupled with sex appeal intelligence will get you very far. Intelligence is like a diamond. A rarity. And as such much desired and attractive to others. You do not attain power without intelligence and if you do you will lose it to someone more intelligent than you. Don't be poisoning the minds of others with this rubbish.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Never have I heard so much horse sh1t in my life. Coupled with sex appeal intelligence will get you very far. Intelligence is like a diamond. A rarity. And as such much desired and attractive to others. You do not attain power without intelligence and if you do you will lose it to someone more intelligent than you. Don't be poisoning the minds of others with this rubbish.

Said a guy who posted silly and useless post how his username reminds a 'bow'.Let other people decide if they want to discuss or not, you are not in position to decide for them.

And yes you can have power without much intelligence - you can be great athlete or good dj or family member of powerful people and you will get laid like crazy unlike nuclear physics profesors who get laid only with their books.
A guy who run fast may even not known earth is round and yet he will have great power in society - fame and money, devotions of millions who follow his every step, voice which can change other's people mind.That's power.Unlike
bookwormish,weak 'smart' guys with diploms who can have power over his dog.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

Statistically, IQ has a negative correlation on an individuals sex life. People with average IQs lose their virginity at a younger age and have more sexual partners than those with high IQs.

Regardless, learning game will give a man a huge advantage over everyone else, and understanding power dynamics is a fundamental part of game.

Personally, I know that acting powerful is usually enough.

 

[:-)]

Said a guy who posted silly and useless post how his username reminds a 'bow'.Let other people decide if they want to discuss or not, you are not in position to decide for them.

And yes you can have power without much intelligence - you can be great athlete or good dj or family member of powerful people and you will get laid like crazy unlike nuclear physics profesors who get laid only with their books.
A guy who run fast may even not known earth is round and yet he will have great power in society - fame and money, devotions of millions who follow his every step, voice which can change other's people mind.That's power.Unlike
bookwormish,weak 'smart' guys with diploms who can have power over his dog.

Clearly you have none of either. Intelligence or power.

 

[marmel75]

Ahh, but intelligence can work to your advantage when you can utilize it properly...pattern recognition, learning what to do and what not to do, adapting your techniques, and helping you to stay at least one step ahead in the chess game.

All of this should be kept internally tho, however...the outward display of intelligence should be kept to a minimum at first..firstly, so that you don't come off as a know-it-all, secondly so you don't bore her to death with facts and information that does nothing to further you getting what you want, and thirdly so she doesn't feel intimidated by your knowledge....

On the flip side, once you get into a relationship and start introducing this part of you slowly, it can increase their attraction since you will be all these great things she already thinks you are AND intelligent, ie the whole package...

But at first, keep the fact you are intelligent to yourself...