"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Intelligence in males = disadvantage?

bigjohnson

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The Forms said:
If you see almost ANY subject as black and white, that's because you probably don't understand it.
You make a good point, also consider that the relative anonymity of the 'net makes for rash statements.

The Forms said:
Like in dating. Here's the argument that keeps getting rehashed by everyone so far:

A) I'm smart
B) I don't get women
therefore,
C) Women don't like me because I'm smart.

.... Correlation does not prove causation.
I'm smart (hey, I get PAID to think!) and I have ***** running out my pocket and dropping on the floor. - With apologies to Eddie Murphy

I love the story about the Harvard Students and chess. I suspect it's apocryphal but the point it makes is good. "A study at Harvard determined that students who had chess sets in their rooms were more likely to get good grades. Should a parent with a child in Harvard buy them a chess set?"

In my experience women prefer smart guys but the laws of mathematics dictate that there can only be so many who are truly a significant amount above average. Women like the c0ck so in the end they take what they can get.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Forms

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
You might as well put that in bold and 72 point font, because that's all of your post that really matters. A statement like that says a lot about you.
What exactly does it say about me?
 

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Not every dude with a high IQ is a Nerd, some are and others are not, I know a dude who is a brute bully type, one of his sons is the same as him, but his other son is a full on wimp.
Brute bully types will never be pushed around by nerds, but sometimes a dude who is in between the two will take one of them out in a punch up, I have seen it happen many times.
Those low IQ retard nerd dudes can't get the hot babes either, but dudes with high IQs can get the hot babes if they are athletically gifted as well as being an academic.
 
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