"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Intelligence in males = disadvantage?

bigjohnson

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The Forms said:
If you see almost ANY subject as black and white, that's because you probably don't understand it.
You make a good point, also consider that the relative anonymity of the 'net makes for rash statements.

The Forms said:
Like in dating. Here's the argument that keeps getting rehashed by everyone so far:

A) I'm smart
B) I don't get women
therefore,
C) Women don't like me because I'm smart.

.... Correlation does not prove causation.
I'm smart (hey, I get PAID to think!) and I have ***** running out my pocket and dropping on the floor. - With apologies to Eddie Murphy

I love the story about the Harvard Students and chess. I suspect it's apocryphal but the point it makes is good. "A study at Harvard determined that students who had chess sets in their rooms were more likely to get good grades. Should a parent with a child in Harvard buy them a chess set?"

In my experience women prefer smart guys but the laws of mathematics dictate that there can only be so many who are truly a significant amount above average. Women like the c0ck so in the end they take what they can get.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Forms

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
You might as well put that in bold and 72 point font, because that's all of your post that really matters. A statement like that says a lot about you.
What exactly does it say about me?
 

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Not every dude with a high IQ is a Nerd, some are and others are not, I know a dude who is a brute bully type, one of his sons is the same as him, but his other son is a full on wimp.
Brute bully types will never be pushed around by nerds, but sometimes a dude who is in between the two will take one of them out in a punch up, I have seen it happen many times.
Those low IQ retard nerd dudes can't get the hot babes either, but dudes with high IQs can get the hot babes if they are athletically gifted as well as being an academic.
 
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