"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This might not be what you're expecting it to be.

I had to change plans with R on account of some extra hours at work I couldn't avoid. Naturally I did it ahead of time and arranged another date with R on the spot. R was cool with that and didn't give me any grief about changing plans.

I met R last night and as it turns out she'd been blindsided with some kind of viral infection earlier in the week (sexy huh!), serious enough to put her in hospital for a few days. It was easy to see she was still struggling with it a bit.

In spite of that she turned up, on time, and gave it everything, completely, totally engaged in the date....when she wasn't coughing, lol. What was particularly interesting was that she hinted at the idea that most girls are terrible flakes and that she didn't want to be identified as one.

Seriously, what a trooper, credit to her gender. I think she'll be lynched by her 'sistas' if word gets out about this though.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wilko said:
This might not be what you're expecting it to be.

I had to change plans with R on account of some extra hours at work I couldn't avoid. Naturally I did it ahead of time and arranged another date with R on the spot. R was cool with that and didn't give me any grief about changing plans.

I met R last night and as it turns out she'd been blindsided with some kind of viral infection earlier in the week (sexy huh!), serious enough to put her in hospital for a few days. It was easy to see she was still struggling with it a bit.

In spite of that she turned up, on time, and gave it everything, completely, totally engaged in the date....when she wasn't coughing, lol. What was particularly interesting was that she hinted at the idea that most girls are terrible flakes and that she didn't want to be identified as one.

Seriously, what a trooper, credit to her gender. I think she'll be lynched by her 'sistas' if word gets out about this though.
The one time a girl has a legit reason to flake, she doesn't. Oh the irony.
 

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Or high interest level? What makes you so sure that if she had lower interest she would go trough with it?
 

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That goes to show that when a woman is interested in you, she will move mountains to see you.

That's why you should always eject when a girl is hemming and hawing about getting together.
 

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Oh I'd like to take credit for it and say that I spiked her IL through the roof with my C&F and demonstrations of social proof (TIC)...but I think she actually has her sh!t together, that simple. I really didn't spend much time building rapport with her prior to the date, but maybe there's a lesson in that also.

Probably not my type looks-wise (I like them shorter and smaller), but she gets to round two just on the basis of being such a trooper. Figure it pays to reward that kind of behaviour on the rare occasions you do come across it, you know, for the general betterment of society, haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Atom Smasher said:
That goes to show that when a woman is interested in you, she will move mountains to see you.
Gold.
 

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You should rename this thread to 'Interest level? Check'.

I dont see any integrity here, she hasn't donated her life savings to a dolphin charity.
 
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