"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Insulted a girl, wat to do?

Raikojo17

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
982
Reaction score
5
me an my girl were talkin on AIM, and thru stupid typos and typing to fast i accidently insulted. i said,

"dang they dont teach ya'll h0e to move ur fingers on the keyboard"

since she was making fun of my typing, i hit her back with it.

but i meant to type "how" instead of "h0e". so she thought i called her a h0e and she got really pissed at me and almost cancelled our date tomorrow.

i had to basically beg to get her to hear me out and I apologized to her. now she's cool with it tho.

now that may sound AFC to some, but i really didnt wanna disrespect her like that.

but how do u usually handle a situation like that when a girl is insulted and it was by accident? should i have not plead my case so much?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,255
Reaction score
235
Age
49
Location
at our house
when i make a type i immediately clear it up

dang they dont teach ya'll h0e to move ur fingers on the keyboard
*how
 

Raikojo17

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
982
Reaction score
5
penkitten said:
when i make a type i immediately clear it up

dang they dont teach ya'll h0e to move ur fingers on the keyboard
*how
after i typed it i got up and left because i assumed it was correct. only to return to her yelling at me saying i can go to x place by myself. guess i gotta do a spell check everytime i type from now on
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Raikojo17

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
982
Reaction score
5
I love Hyori Lee said:
(shakes head)

Don't beg.

Who gives a fuk what she thinks, man. Stop being such a pus.sy.
i did tell her she shouldnt jump tp conclusions and that she overreacted, because she knows im prone to doing that and "W" and "E" and right next to each other on the keyboard. she agreed and said she shouldnt have.
but i told her my case, and apologized, lotsa times. she defined it as begging.
but i just dont like offending people when it's not needed, so that's y i cared about wat she thinks.
 
Joined
Mar 18, 2006
Messages
3,956
Reaction score
37
Hahaha, that is good one - it is a honest mistake - she needs to put it in context of your message - the 'e' is next to the "w" - in my case I want to say hoe but I mistakenly hit the "w" and spell "how" - I hate when that happens!
 
Top