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Insulted a girl, wat to do?

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me an my girl were talkin on AIM, and thru stupid typos and typing to fast i accidently insulted. i said,

"dang they dont teach ya'll h0e to move ur fingers on the keyboard"

since she was making fun of my typing, i hit her back with it.

but i meant to type "how" instead of "h0e". so she thought i called her a h0e and she got really pissed at me and almost cancelled our date tomorrow.

i had to basically beg to get her to hear me out and I apologized to her. now she's cool with it tho.

now that may sound AFC to some, but i really didnt wanna disrespect her like that.

but how do u usually handle a situation like that when a girl is insulted and it was by accident? should i have not plead my case so much?
 

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when i make a type i immediately clear it up

dang they dont teach ya'll h0e to move ur fingers on the keyboard
*how
 

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penkitten said:
when i make a type i immediately clear it up

dang they dont teach ya'll h0e to move ur fingers on the keyboard
*how
after i typed it i got up and left because i assumed it was correct. only to return to her yelling at me saying i can go to x place by myself. guess i gotta do a spell check everytime i type from now on
 

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I love Hyori Lee said:
(shakes head)

Don't beg.

Who gives a fuk what she thinks, man. Stop being such a pus.sy.
i did tell her she shouldnt jump tp conclusions and that she overreacted, because she knows im prone to doing that and "W" and "E" and right next to each other on the keyboard. she agreed and said she shouldnt have.
but i told her my case, and apologized, lotsa times. she defined it as begging.
but i just dont like offending people when it's not needed, so that's y i cared about wat she thinks.
 
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Hahaha, that is good one - it is a honest mistake - she needs to put it in context of your message - the 'e' is next to the "w" - in my case I want to say hoe but I mistakenly hit the "w" and spell "how" - I hate when that happens!
 
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