"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Instructions for life

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As told by the Dalai Lama:

1. Take into account that great love and achievements involve great risk.

2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

3. Follow the 3 Rs
I. Respect self
II. Respect others
III. Responsibility for actions

4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck

5.. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly

6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great relationship

7. When you realize that you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

8. Spend some time along every day.

9. Open arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll enjoy it a second time.

12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life

13. In disagreement with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.

14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.

15. Be gentle with the earth.

16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.

17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other far exceeds your need for each other.

18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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diplomatic_lies

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Didnt Oscar Wilde write this stuff?
 

[o_0]

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it doesntwork anyways ;)
 
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it doesn't work for YOU because you're on crack you stupid f*ck.:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thats some really deep stuff there. Not specifically for getting woman, but I don't see how a man can not enjoy life if he follows those guidelines.

Does it really matter who wrote it? It's good stuff anyways ;)
 

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Originally posted by [o_0]
dalai lama didnt have woman.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=87683&perpage=20&pagenumber=1
here you got some useful tips.
pzzzzzz
Why it doesn't work for you is because you automatically judge the material by how likely it is to get you laid. It seems that most people who have been on here longer are not as interested in getting girls as they are in other pursuits in their lives. I assumed at first that this site was about getting girls. What I think it is more about is improving yourself with girls to make you realise that girls are not really that important compared to improving other areas of your life, it then has information to help you gain the attitude and beliefs to pursue your new goals.

Don't get me wrong, I love spending time with certain girls that would not have been possible without this site(due to lack of confidence). However, whereas before my sole aim was to get girls to feed my ego, I now have passions and I do my best at everything in life I try. My view of girls has changed from a "How can I impress her? What should I say next?" to a "I am enjoying myself, I hope this is the type of girl I can share my happiness with, but if she trys to ruin my mood by being awkward or angry then I'll just leave her".

By the way, thank you for posting this Dimebag_Darrell, I agree with all these points and think that adopting these will help a person in life.
 

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sometimes its nice to have positive daily affirmations.
it brings good karma your way.
 
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