"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Instructions for life

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As told by the Dalai Lama:

1. Take into account that great love and achievements involve great risk.

2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

3. Follow the 3 Rs
I. Respect self
II. Respect others
III. Responsibility for actions

4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck

5.. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly

6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great relationship

7. When you realize that you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

8. Spend some time along every day.

9. Open arms to change, but don't let go of your values.

10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll enjoy it a second time.

12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life

13. In disagreement with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.

14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.

15. Be gentle with the earth.

16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.

17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other far exceeds your need for each other.

18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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diplomatic_lies

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Didnt Oscar Wilde write this stuff?
 

[o_0]

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it doesntwork anyways ;)
 
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it doesn't work for YOU because you're on crack you stupid f*ck.:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thats some really deep stuff there. Not specifically for getting woman, but I don't see how a man can not enjoy life if he follows those guidelines.

Does it really matter who wrote it? It's good stuff anyways ;)
 

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Originally posted by [o_0]
dalai lama didnt have woman.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=87683&perpage=20&pagenumber=1
here you got some useful tips.
pzzzzzz
Why it doesn't work for you is because you automatically judge the material by how likely it is to get you laid. It seems that most people who have been on here longer are not as interested in getting girls as they are in other pursuits in their lives. I assumed at first that this site was about getting girls. What I think it is more about is improving yourself with girls to make you realise that girls are not really that important compared to improving other areas of your life, it then has information to help you gain the attitude and beliefs to pursue your new goals.

Don't get me wrong, I love spending time with certain girls that would not have been possible without this site(due to lack of confidence). However, whereas before my sole aim was to get girls to feed my ego, I now have passions and I do my best at everything in life I try. My view of girls has changed from a "How can I impress her? What should I say next?" to a "I am enjoying myself, I hope this is the type of girl I can share my happiness with, but if she trys to ruin my mood by being awkward or angry then I'll just leave her".

By the way, thank you for posting this Dimebag_Darrell, I agree with all these points and think that adopting these will help a person in life.
 

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sometimes its nice to have positive daily affirmations.
it brings good karma your way.
 
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