Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Falcon25 said:
Just remember, Martinis are like titties, one's not enough, but three is too many.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Instead of writing same thing on each thread, I will put this here.
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Just remember, Martinis are like titties, one's not enough, but three is too many.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Razor Sharp
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Seriously guys this isn;t about the alcohol -it's about getting her to unwind and have a good time - you know, forget her troubles so she can associate that liberating feeling with you. It's very hard to do the same when you are both stuffing your faces, plus dinner just makes people sleepy.
This is all about stimulating, and getting her in the mood to have fun. You can substitute alcohol for anything else that helps people unwind. Good music, good company, nice ambience. Don't get so stuck on the booze aspect that you miss the value of this post - it's damn spot on in my experience.
This is all about stimulating, and getting her in the mood to have fun. You can substitute alcohol for anything else that helps people unwind. Good music, good company, nice ambience. Don't get so stuck on the booze aspect that you miss the value of this post - it's damn spot on in my experience.