Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Falcon25 said:
Just remember, Martinis are like titties, one's not enough, but three is too many.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Instead of writing same thing on each thread, I will put this here.
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Just remember, Martinis are like titties, one's not enough, but three is too many.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Razor Sharp
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Seriously guys this isn;t about the alcohol -it's about getting her to unwind and have a good time - you know, forget her troubles so she can associate that liberating feeling with you. It's very hard to do the same when you are both stuffing your faces, plus dinner just makes people sleepy.
This is all about stimulating, and getting her in the mood to have fun. You can substitute alcohol for anything else that helps people unwind. Good music, good company, nice ambience. Don't get so stuck on the booze aspect that you miss the value of this post - it's damn spot on in my experience.
This is all about stimulating, and getting her in the mood to have fun. You can substitute alcohol for anything else that helps people unwind. Good music, good company, nice ambience. Don't get so stuck on the booze aspect that you miss the value of this post - it's damn spot on in my experience.