Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Falcon25 said:
Just remember, Martinis are like titties, one's not enough, but three is too many.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Instead of writing same thing on each thread, I will put this here.
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Just remember, Martinis are like titties, one's not enough, but three is too many.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Razor Sharp
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Seriously guys this isn;t about the alcohol -it's about getting her to unwind and have a good time - you know, forget her troubles so she can associate that liberating feeling with you. It's very hard to do the same when you are both stuffing your faces, plus dinner just makes people sleepy.
This is all about stimulating, and getting her in the mood to have fun. You can substitute alcohol for anything else that helps people unwind. Good music, good company, nice ambience. Don't get so stuck on the booze aspect that you miss the value of this post - it's damn spot on in my experience.
This is all about stimulating, and getting her in the mood to have fun. You can substitute alcohol for anything else that helps people unwind. Good music, good company, nice ambience. Don't get so stuck on the booze aspect that you miss the value of this post - it's damn spot on in my experience.