Instant state changers tips for approaching women

[Travel memoir21]

Today I went to church, listened to the Pastor’s sermon and was in a reflective thought. I was coffee fasting today, so I went to Starbucks afterwards, I went inside and there was a cute blonde inside.

I was still in a reflective mood and it was sort of a downer and did not feel like talking to anyone at all. Looking back, I might have missed a good opportunity to meet someone.

So my question is, how do you get into a calm and upbeat mood instantly when you’re going through some stuff emotionally and internally. How do you be in the moment and just put that aside and just have a good time? I notice that women appears when it’s less than convenient for you and you just got to make something happen, put what you’re going through aside and be in a fun playful mood right there presently.

Know what I mean?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Gotta have some food with your coffee man. You're not you when you're hungry.

But practically speaking what works for me is listening to some good tunes. Listen to something uplifting when you're there in the shop if you have some earbuds. Pick out tunes you know pick you up.

 

[BMX]

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