"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Instant Messaging

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ChocolateVanilla

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What are your guy's thoughts on instant messaging a girl to get to know her before meeting up with her? A lot of guys use e-mails and myspace pages and Instant messaging seems more effective to me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Play the Game

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A lot of guys on these forums have hang ups about using ims and txts.
Personally i don't think it matters, as long as you convey the same personality, confidence and lack of neediness in your communication it doesn't matter what form it's in. I use phone calls when i'm gonna meet up with the girl before hand, because it's easier to communicate but other than that txts are fine for a couple words.
 
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Do a search on this site. There are PLENTY of great chat logs you can use as an example of what to say online and then get laid.

Not that I am condoning using another DJ's lines as your own, but whatever works.
 
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it's just another method of communication
 
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TT2CiN

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My Name is Nobody said:
Do a search on this site. There are PLENTY of great chat logs you can use as an example of what to say online and then get laid.

Not that I am condoning using another DJ's lines as your own, but whatever works.
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Links? What do you type in search to get these chat logs, cause I haven't seen to many on this site.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My Name is Nobody said:
Do a search on this site. There are PLENTY of great chat logs you can use as an example of what to say online and then get laid.

Not that I am condoning using another DJ's lines as your own, but whatever works.
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yea where are the chat logs?
 
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