"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ChocolateVanilla

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What are your guy's thoughts on instant messaging a girl to get to know her before meeting up with her? A lot of guys use e-mails and myspace pages and Instant messaging seems more effective to me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Play the Game

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A lot of guys on these forums have hang ups about using ims and txts.
Personally i don't think it matters, as long as you convey the same personality, confidence and lack of neediness in your communication it doesn't matter what form it's in. I use phone calls when i'm gonna meet up with the girl before hand, because it's easier to communicate but other than that txts are fine for a couple words.
 
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My Name is Nobody

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Do a search on this site. There are PLENTY of great chat logs you can use as an example of what to say online and then get laid.

Not that I am condoning using another DJ's lines as your own, but whatever works.
 
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Jack McCrack

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it's just another method of communication
 
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TT2CiN

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My Name is Nobody said:
Do a search on this site. There are PLENTY of great chat logs you can use as an example of what to say online and then get laid.

Not that I am condoning using another DJ's lines as your own, but whatever works.
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Links? What do you type in search to get these chat logs, cause I haven't seen to many on this site.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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moto

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My Name is Nobody said:
Do a search on this site. There are PLENTY of great chat logs you can use as an example of what to say online and then get laid.

Not that I am condoning using another DJ's lines as your own, but whatever works.
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yea where are the chat logs?
 
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