Instant Dates

[crowolf]

I am currently watching Tom Torero's stuff, and he mentioned somewhere that having an instant date doesn't really increase the chances of successfully setting a date afterwards (unless it results in a same day lay, which is a big win already).

My experience is not so broad, and I cannot yet confirm this fully. Today I had one opportunity, and wondered if I made a mistake by not going for the instant date but rather leaving the girl on her casual Friday walk during the perfect weather (I actually had planned something else).

Nonetheless, I would like to know if instant dates matter or it could just be seen as more time to gain reference experience. After all, the woman could just be bored and use you for some entertainment, which is not so much the scenario for a real date (unless you are a beta provider).

So, what are your thoughts on instant dates? When is it recommended, when it is not?

Thanks.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I was thinking about trying these out myself

Only thing is I feel like you'd either have to be super lucky to find a chick on her own , with enough interest and be in exactly the right mindset to go on one

OR you would have to volume approach on a Saturday or Sunday which would take up a lot of time

Like I said I like the idea but executing it is a lot easier said than done

 

[SW15]

I have landed an instant date before. Most daygame interactions won't result in an instant date so it's not worth thinking about too much.

Focus more on using your daygame approaches to set up drinks dates at bars on future nights.

 

[Murk]

I thought this was about OLD girls that come straight to your house 1 hour after matching. That's happened twice and they were both catfishes that I banged simply because they were there.

I've never talked to a girl and then gone on a date, people are usually busy/have a motive and not aimlessly wandering around.

It could work in tourist spots.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Most instadates ended up with sex. A girl that horny to instadate you is usually horny enough to instasex you. Unless you screw it up.