"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yo People

While waiting To head over To The gYm I notice a HB 7.5 shes waiting for the same Uni camus Bus as I well I intiated Coversation and we began to talk comfortably about anything....

well she began showing me all the stuff she brought showing it to me and handing it to me asking me questions like do you like it bla bla bla...

AS the bus arrived i decided to sit by her Now i had 45 mins to game her....

well her eyes seemed to0 amazing to be real and as i begen building attraction i notcied her pupils had never change in side then i notice her pull out a contacts case and she removes her lenses, so b4 that i had to reconize her attraction by her body languadge...

well as we chatted away i made her comfort level relaxed......

she began to offer me crisps and chewing gum after that.... ???

well as she was asian she didnt want her mum to see me with her so i kept up with the C/F

I did number close her and she goes does call on private number bla bla

well a few things i need to know...

while we chatted for ages on the bus their was a time when she called a few freinds and stuff.... i need to know if this was an attempt to impress...

also she seemed tired and sleepy...

what stunned me was how comfortable she became with me, she was very relaxed, smiling alot and showed me all her stuff and even a few pics of her on her mob she also commented that she looks better with makup and her clothes....


Hook me up with some info Guys

+i learnt it can be difficult to read a womans eyes and intrest levels when they wear contacts:cuss: :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When she asked if you wanted gum, that could have meant that she wanted to be kissed.

You seem like you have a grip on it. Keep up the good work.
 

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I would like to see you incorporate some Kino escalation. If my impressions are correct, she was giving you enough IOI's for you to simply initiate. From my personal experiences, if a girl is tired or sleepy, she's making an excuse to get closer to you. If anything, remember to stay calm and in control of the situation. Second, don't try to judge a woman's interest levels just by any one physical indicator. There are countless factors that could go into pupil size and so on. Pay more attention to the interaction than physicals indicators. On the other hand, good job on the interaction, but try to take it to the next level. Call her up and give us a report.

-Damian
 
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