"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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While waiting To head over To The gYm I notice a HB 7.5 shes waiting for the same Uni camus Bus as I well I intiated Coversation and we began to talk comfortably about anything....

well she began showing me all the stuff she brought showing it to me and handing it to me asking me questions like do you like it bla bla bla...

AS the bus arrived i decided to sit by her Now i had 45 mins to game her....

well her eyes seemed to0 amazing to be real and as i begen building attraction i notcied her pupils had never change in side then i notice her pull out a contacts case and she removes her lenses, so b4 that i had to reconize her attraction by her body languadge...

well as we chatted away i made her comfort level relaxed......

she began to offer me crisps and chewing gum after that.... ???

well as she was asian she didnt want her mum to see me with her so i kept up with the C/F

I did number close her and she goes does call on private number bla bla

well a few things i need to know...

while we chatted for ages on the bus their was a time when she called a few freinds and stuff.... i need to know if this was an attempt to impress...

also she seemed tired and sleepy...

what stunned me was how comfortable she became with me, she was very relaxed, smiling alot and showed me all her stuff and even a few pics of her on her mob she also commented that she looks better with makup and her clothes....


Hook me up with some info Guys

+i learnt it can be difficult to read a womans eyes and intrest levels when they wear contacts:cuss: :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When she asked if you wanted gum, that could have meant that she wanted to be kissed.

You seem like you have a grip on it. Keep up the good work.
 

Damian

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I would like to see you incorporate some Kino escalation. If my impressions are correct, she was giving you enough IOI's for you to simply initiate. From my personal experiences, if a girl is tired or sleepy, she's making an excuse to get closer to you. If anything, remember to stay calm and in control of the situation. Second, don't try to judge a woman's interest levels just by any one physical indicator. There are countless factors that could go into pupil size and so on. Pay more attention to the interaction than physicals indicators. On the other hand, good job on the interaction, but try to take it to the next level. Call her up and give us a report.

-Damian
 
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