"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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youngprodigy

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Social media makes it a lot easier to meet girls. Through either randomly seeing their account or knowing of them (or vice versa) and meeting them that way. It makes it easier for those in geographical locations which aren't in the main city. For instance, a suburban resident will benefit from using social media apps.

Instagram (and snapchat) have helped. But for instagram in general I've been pretty random with my approaches. If a girl sends a follow request and likes a pictures, and I follow her, should I message her the same day or another time. What are your approaches to this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SmooveMooves

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No. On instagram there is this unwritten way of approaching. If you talk to anyone the scores off of IG they'll tell you. After adding one another and exchanging likes allow that process to continue for 2-3 weeks. Make sure you like her photos whenever they appear in your feed and if she's feeling you she'll do the same. After that goes on for a lil bit. Leave a comment on one her posts. This will get her used to the idea of speaking with you. If doesn't DM by now wait until a later post and send her a DM. You can be direcg and say that you think she's beautiful or you can comment on whatever her post was about and try to convert from there.


Same day instant messaging chicks you just follower makes you look desperate. Don't do it.
 
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