"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Social media makes it a lot easier to meet girls. Through either randomly seeing their account or knowing of them (or vice versa) and meeting them that way. It makes it easier for those in geographical locations which aren't in the main city. For instance, a suburban resident will benefit from using social media apps.

Instagram (and snapchat) have helped. But for instagram in general I've been pretty random with my approaches. If a girl sends a follow request and likes a pictures, and I follow her, should I message her the same day or another time. What are your approaches to this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No. On instagram there is this unwritten way of approaching. If you talk to anyone the scores off of IG they'll tell you. After adding one another and exchanging likes allow that process to continue for 2-3 weeks. Make sure you like her photos whenever they appear in your feed and if she's feeling you she'll do the same. After that goes on for a lil bit. Leave a comment on one her posts. This will get her used to the idea of speaking with you. If doesn't DM by now wait until a later post and send her a DM. You can be direcg and say that you think she's beautiful or you can comment on whatever her post was about and try to convert from there.


Same day instant messaging chicks you just follower makes you look desperate. Don't do it.
 
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