"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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youngprodigy

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Social media makes it a lot easier to meet girls. Through either randomly seeing their account or knowing of them (or vice versa) and meeting them that way. It makes it easier for those in geographical locations which aren't in the main city. For instance, a suburban resident will benefit from using social media apps.

Instagram (and snapchat) have helped. But for instagram in general I've been pretty random with my approaches. If a girl sends a follow request and likes a pictures, and I follow her, should I message her the same day or another time. What are your approaches to this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SmooveMooves

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No. On instagram there is this unwritten way of approaching. If you talk to anyone the scores off of IG they'll tell you. After adding one another and exchanging likes allow that process to continue for 2-3 weeks. Make sure you like her photos whenever they appear in your feed and if she's feeling you she'll do the same. After that goes on for a lil bit. Leave a comment on one her posts. This will get her used to the idea of speaking with you. If doesn't DM by now wait until a later post and send her a DM. You can be direcg and say that you think she's beautiful or you can comment on whatever her post was about and try to convert from there.


Same day instant messaging chicks you just follower makes you look desperate. Don't do it.
 
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