"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Instagram Followers/Following ratio

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I'm interested to know some opinions regarding this.

So if a chick has 300 followers while following 900 ****as herself is a bad one, possibly an attention hoe or extremely depressed. And a guy who has 250 followers while following 2000 fishhole/pvssies is an unattractive man who is not in demand and therefore won't be very successful at OLD.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There was this girl who worked in a premium store. She always smiled and behaved in a way which indicated high IL. I ordered a product which couldn't be delivered at that moment. She got my number as it is the typical procedure so she could call me when the product is ready.

After she called me, I ended up sneaking on her instagram and telegram with another phone and saw she has like 2400 followers while following 4000 dlcks herself. It made me feel insecure not sure why.
 

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Follower count doesn't really say that much. The attention hoes are gonna hoe either way. I know ones who have barely 30 followers that act terribly, just like the ones with 3000+. However, when there's 150+ that they're following, and they have hundreds of followers it's a pretty safe bet you're dealing with an attention wh0re.

I wouldn't bother with this chick. Let me guess her account is full of mirror selfies, pictures taken by photographers, photos of her legs, and your occasional post about family/friends where they pretend to miss them but they don't respond to any of their comments.

That 2nd premium store chick sounds like a phony manipulator type attention wh0re. The kind who will pretend to like you when they can benefit from it, like getting getting sale commission, validation, or money/stuff. Then she'll act completely different around other people because she likely has a boyfriend.

I wouldn't bother with either. A rule of thumb, the one's really active on Instagram and Snapchat 99% of the time are attention wh0res.
 

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I agree that she is being manipulative. I'm just jealous how she has so many options, in a platonic way.


She has 10 posts though and they are about urban environment and hippy BS like that.
 

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There's nothing to be jealous of with her. She may have a huge ratio of orbiters, but you know just like I do the vast majority of them are strangers. They may be at her disposal, but she'd never consider any of them.

I'm guessing she's a wanna be "neo hippie" from what you said. Those types are always trouble dude. They're out there doing all kinds of crazy s**t, and no one can keep up with them. Hence why they're usually always single.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Great insight man, I'm going to treat this as a mild oneitis and move one. No more mental fapping.
 
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