"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Instagram Followers/Following ratio

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I'm interested to know some opinions regarding this.

So if a chick has 300 followers while following 900 ****as herself is a bad one, possibly an attention hoe or extremely depressed. And a guy who has 250 followers while following 2000 fishhole/pvssies is an unattractive man who is not in demand and therefore won't be very successful at OLD.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There was this girl who worked in a premium store. She always smiled and behaved in a way which indicated high IL. I ordered a product which couldn't be delivered at that moment. She got my number as it is the typical procedure so she could call me when the product is ready.

After she called me, I ended up sneaking on her instagram and telegram with another phone and saw she has like 2400 followers while following 4000 dlcks herself. It made me feel insecure not sure why.
 

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Follower count doesn't really say that much. The attention hoes are gonna hoe either way. I know ones who have barely 30 followers that act terribly, just like the ones with 3000+. However, when there's 150+ that they're following, and they have hundreds of followers it's a pretty safe bet you're dealing with an attention wh0re.

I wouldn't bother with this chick. Let me guess her account is full of mirror selfies, pictures taken by photographers, photos of her legs, and your occasional post about family/friends where they pretend to miss them but they don't respond to any of their comments.

That 2nd premium store chick sounds like a phony manipulator type attention wh0re. The kind who will pretend to like you when they can benefit from it, like getting getting sale commission, validation, or money/stuff. Then she'll act completely different around other people because she likely has a boyfriend.

I wouldn't bother with either. A rule of thumb, the one's really active on Instagram and Snapchat 99% of the time are attention wh0res.
 

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I agree that she is being manipulative. I'm just jealous how she has so many options, in a platonic way.


She has 10 posts though and they are about urban environment and hippy BS like that.
 

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There's nothing to be jealous of with her. She may have a huge ratio of orbiters, but you know just like I do the vast majority of them are strangers. They may be at her disposal, but she'd never consider any of them.

I'm guessing she's a wanna be "neo hippie" from what you said. Those types are always trouble dude. They're out there doing all kinds of crazy s**t, and no one can keep up with them. Hence why they're usually always single.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Great insight man, I'm going to treat this as a mild oneitis and move one. No more mental fapping.
 
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