"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Insta-date with Senior Co-worker

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I've mentioned getting into an argument with my senior co-worker before.

Don't know what happened today but we ended up alone together and on a date. She also asked me to a singles valentines day event. I'm kind of like wtf because i was being cool since i didn't want our argument of the past hold back our current friendship.

It was awkward for me because although she is an HB 7.5, she's 27 and i'm 23. she has a kid as well. The girl was supposed to be going out on a date and my co-worker and i were just having drinks with her to kill time until time for her date came. Co-worker ended up leaving to meet up with his family for a family event and she asked me to stay with her. She even mentioned this is kind of like our date.

I do joke with her as i do everyone else. earlier today I sent her an email saying "Do you want to Spice up your life?". Which mainly meant do you want to get eat at Spice. Spice is a thai restaurant we all eat at atleast once a month. She thought it was super cute and funny. She was also acting weird during when we were drinking and told me all about her life.

This girl a few months ago was yelling, screaming, and acting like a b1tch to me until i flat out called her out and made her apologize. Now we're drinking together and she's invited me out to an event with her next week. hopefully i'm thinking too much of this because i was really confused on wth was going on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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your doing good, just keep coky/funny and be confident. look good, smell good, and do her up!
 

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The thing is i don't want to date her and to make things more complicated. ahh sh1t, we'll see.
 
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