"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Insta-date with Senior Co-worker

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I've mentioned getting into an argument with my senior co-worker before.

Don't know what happened today but we ended up alone together and on a date. She also asked me to a singles valentines day event. I'm kind of like wtf because i was being cool since i didn't want our argument of the past hold back our current friendship.

It was awkward for me because although she is an HB 7.5, she's 27 and i'm 23. she has a kid as well. The girl was supposed to be going out on a date and my co-worker and i were just having drinks with her to kill time until time for her date came. Co-worker ended up leaving to meet up with his family for a family event and she asked me to stay with her. She even mentioned this is kind of like our date.

I do joke with her as i do everyone else. earlier today I sent her an email saying "Do you want to Spice up your life?". Which mainly meant do you want to get eat at Spice. Spice is a thai restaurant we all eat at atleast once a month. She thought it was super cute and funny. She was also acting weird during when we were drinking and told me all about her life.

This girl a few months ago was yelling, screaming, and acting like a b1tch to me until i flat out called her out and made her apologize. Now we're drinking together and she's invited me out to an event with her next week. hopefully i'm thinking too much of this because i was really confused on wth was going on.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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your doing good, just keep coky/funny and be confident. look good, smell good, and do her up!
 

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The thing is i don't want to date her and to make things more complicated. ahh sh1t, we'll see.
 
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