Insta-commitment

[Hamurabimbi]

Just back in the singles scene. Had recent experience with three women. All late twenties, early thirties. Two of them, before our first date, told me they wanted: long term, committed exclusive relationships and I shouldn’t expect any action immediately. Another, whom has told me she wants a husband. (Though I think she’d be up for immediate action.) Is this common? I have been told I look like a ‘player ‘, so maybe they’re trying to mitigate that?

 

[Machine10033]

This is pretty common. It is probably pretty close to 100 percent of all females want a husband and long term relationship. When they say something like do not think your getting laid... It is usually best to brush that off with some humor. Usually i say "ummmm you must think pretty highly of yourself.... who said i want to fck you?" If you play it right they will give you action and then usually lay there saying " Omg... i never do this".
I actually prefer that girls act that way I have had girls in certain situations tell me immediately your getting laid tonight..... and my first
thought is jesus christ how many ****s have been in her.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Yeah. I remember from my single days, ‘you gotta wait’ was BS. But I’m just surprised at the rules laid down before the first date.