Just back in the singles scene. Had recent experience with three women. All late twenties, early thirties. Two of them, before our first date, told me they wanted: long term, committed exclusive relationships and I shouldn’t expect any action immediately. Another, whom has told me she wants a husband. (Though I think she’d be up for immediate action.) Is this common? I have been told I look like a ‘player ‘, so maybe they’re trying to mitigate that?