"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Inspiring/Motivational Books

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Anyone have any suggestions for some good books to read. I like to read if i get time to. I dont want any motivational speaking BS, just some inspiring content, something that may change my perspective on things. Doesnt even necessarily have to be solely based on the premise of women either
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, Think and Grow Rich and Law of Success by Napoleon Hill are paradigm shifters.

You should check out As a Man Thinketh by James Allen, a very short but meaningful discourse on man's dominion over his mind as the means of his existence.

Atlas Shrugged was the biggest eye-opener for me, it exposed me to Ayn Rand's Objectivist philosophy. Her basic position is that man is only responsible for himself, that he cannot bear the responsibility of others and he cannot expect others to be responsible for him.
 

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ok yeah think im buying the last book you mentioned. lately ive really been thinking about how i worry too much about other peoples problems, like things that dont involve me whatsoever, and i will dwell on others problems. i start thinking, "how are they gonna get out of this", or "how would i react", but to an extreme where it starts to worry me so much that it manifests into a problem that starts affecting me. somehow some people perceive me as selfish, but i honestly dont think im selfish enough. i definately need to start doing what I want and what makes ME happy.

i have read rich dad poor dad and am halfway through think and grow rich, just getting prepared. thanks for the suggestions!
 

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Uncommon Geniuses is a book I never see anyone mentioned that is wonderful.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Language Of God, by Dr.Francis Collins.

Dr.Collins was the director of the Humane Genome Project. Dr.Collins was not a religious person when undertaking the project but came to the conclusion that the order of the genome, it's mathmatical equations and models, could not simply be random. Therefore, he suggests in his book that there was/may be, something greater that created the universe and ultimately, life itself.

Not overly technical. A good read and fascinating.
 

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Go to the bottom of this page, clik on DJ Bible, clik on "The book of Pook", then in your search bar up the top, type in whyhasntanyonementionedpookyet.for****sake.com

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"The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida
 
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