"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Such a good movie!
Movies that I've seen lately that lit a fire under my ass:
"The bucket list" - makes you want to accomplish every dream you've ever had!
"Zorba the Greek" - Zorba's carefree and always young character is something that I wish could apply to me. Hell, I feel older than him!
"Alfie" (1966) - The main character is a DJ.
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1. Shawshank
2. Rocky
3. Amelie
Gran Torino - Clint Eastwood is a badass even at his age
300 - This is spart
Casablanca - I don't know why but this movie makes me happy
I have to rewatch Shawshank Redemption and Zorba the Greek
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Miracle On Ice....US Olympic underdog hockey team beats Russians.
The Quiet Man.....John Wayne. Nuff said.
Mystery Alaska.....Russell Crowe. Another underdog movie. A favorite.
Gettysburg....Martin Sheen
Gods and Generals....Robert Duvall
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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You think you have problems?
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I've seen this. One of Alec Baldwin's best performances.Julius_Seizeher said:
Count Rocky and 300 in, too. Also any movie by Bruce Campbell. Not because the movies are great but because Bruce is a B-movie actor who up to this day never gives up trying to be an A-movie actor.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.