For some reason even if I know there's a party or something, I'm never inspired to go and I always make excuses why NOT to go. For instance there was a party today which I could've got my sister to take me too but I didn't go because of the excuse that it was "too far". And tommorow this girl's having a party, but I'm already starting to make excuses about that. "Only 23 people on Facebook are supposedly going to the party" "What if my ride can't find the place?" "What if it was invitation only and I don't get in?" all excuses I make NOT to go out. So tell me, how can I get inspired to actually go out and not stay in the house all day?
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Inspiration to go out?
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realize that life will pass you by if your not careful. sounds like you may be scared to leave your comfort zone. when you leave your comfort zone good things happen....you meet new people,new chicks. life's all about meeting people you connect with. if you dont leave the house you don't grow and learn new ****. turn off the xbox and the tv and the computer and go live your life.
Think about it man.
Your 18, still young. Think about 5 years from now...your going to look back and be like..."Damn, all those parties I could've gone to back then..."
LIVE A LIFE OF NO REGRETS!
Just stop making excuses and GO!
Just make sure you know the host or at least 2-3 of people at the party since it might get awkward for you.
BUT...you can meet new people instead. Just introduce yourself, relax, and have fun. When your having fun and enjoying yourself people will gravitate towards you.
Why? because parties are for the sole purpose of having FUN. People want to have FUN.
good luck at the party bro, apply some of the stuff you read on this board. (have the mindset your ALREADY going to the party, and you'll go)
Your 18, still young. Think about 5 years from now...your going to look back and be like..."Damn, all those parties I could've gone to back then..."
LIVE A LIFE OF NO REGRETS!
Just stop making excuses and GO!
Just make sure you know the host or at least 2-3 of people at the party since it might get awkward for you.
BUT...you can meet new people instead. Just introduce yourself, relax, and have fun. When your having fun and enjoying yourself people will gravitate towards you.
Why? because parties are for the sole purpose of having FUN. People want to have FUN.
good luck at the party bro, apply some of the stuff you read on this board. (have the mindset your ALREADY going to the party, and you'll go)
But isn't that what you wanted to begin with?ElStud said:
Heck, I'd probably crash the damn thing, especially if I knew there were going to be hot girls there.
The guy who posted earlier is right, you won't get a chance to do these parties over again when you're 40 and looking back with regrets on how much fun you missed. Get out there and make it happen!
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You might just have to make peace with the fact that you're lame. Where's this party at? 