"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Inspiration Songs

Daddy The Pimp

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Sup bros :D

Does anyone have inspiration song ?
Song that gets him on the mood and listens to it before going out ?

Before i go out i listen Dj Dave ft. Turkish - Sargin to remind myself that im better than than all other loosers out there that wait for girls to approach them .

Whats your playlist ?:p Inspirational Songs ? That inspires you to get out and sarge :D?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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big pun: laughin at you
big pun: you came up
rocky: going the distance

those 3 songs always inspire me
 

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The Good Left Undone
Ready to Fall
Survive

All three songs by the awesome band Rise Against.

They've got such a positive forward thinking message with their music that I consider them to be the ultimate DJ band.
 

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KontrollerX said:
The Good Left Undone
Ready to Fall
Survive

All three songs by the awesome band Rise Against.

They've got such a positive forward thinking message with their music that I consider them to be the ultimate DJ band.
rise against the machine?

dude they are fukin communists
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No.

The band Rise Against.

Rage Against the Machine is an entirely different band but I think they rule too.

Type in some of the songs I listed on youtube and you'll see what I'm talking about when you don't see Zach Dela Roach singing the songs that I listed lol.
 

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I don't do it often but when I listen to "Smack My B1tch Up" by Prodigy before going out I get ****y as hell.
 

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Aboleo said:
...Also, The Verve - "Bitter Sweet Symphony".
+1 (when I want to have a mellow vibe).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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