"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Inspiration Songs

Daddy The Pimp

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Sup bros :D

Does anyone have inspiration song ?
Song that gets him on the mood and listens to it before going out ?

Before i go out i listen Dj Dave ft. Turkish - Sargin to remind myself that im better than than all other loosers out there that wait for girls to approach them .

Whats your playlist ?:p Inspirational Songs ? That inspires you to get out and sarge :D?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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big pun: laughin at you
big pun: you came up
rocky: going the distance

those 3 songs always inspire me
 

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The Good Left Undone
Ready to Fall
Survive

All three songs by the awesome band Rise Against.

They've got such a positive forward thinking message with their music that I consider them to be the ultimate DJ band.
 

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KontrollerX said:
The Good Left Undone
Ready to Fall
Survive

All three songs by the awesome band Rise Against.

They've got such a positive forward thinking message with their music that I consider them to be the ultimate DJ band.
rise against the machine?

dude they are fukin communists
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No.

The band Rise Against.

Rage Against the Machine is an entirely different band but I think they rule too.

Type in some of the songs I listed on youtube and you'll see what I'm talking about when you don't see Zach Dela Roach singing the songs that I listed lol.
 

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I don't do it often but when I listen to "Smack My B1tch Up" by Prodigy before going out I get ****y as hell.
 

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Aboleo said:
...Also, The Verve - "Bitter Sweet Symphony".
+1 (when I want to have a mellow vibe).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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