"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Every morning I fight myself to get out of bed around 9, I still feel really tired all day long and it affects my studying, which is really important, and my training. I did some reading on the internet and I found out, that not being able to get enough sleep is also called insomnia.

Im just wondering if anybody knows what I can do against this or if anybody has experiences with this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you're getting to sleep at 11pm, you don't have insomnia. It sounds like you're getting a full 10 hours of sleep in each night - the problem likely lies in your activity level or diet, not any medical condition that you have. You may wish to start working out regularly if you haven't already, as well as begin eating right.

Insomnia is characterized as being an inability to fall asleep - and is not a disease in and of itself. Even if you weren't able to fall asleep (had insomnia), it would be a symptom of an underlying condition which would mean you probably would need to visit a psychologist. However, since you don't have it, you don't - I hope?
 

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yeah, i usualyl go to sleep at mindight, and wake up at 6... and i feel peachy. but, then again, im a morning person.

I feel like its a waste to stay in bed until 9 or later.

im trying to go to bed at 11 right now, because 6 hours of sleep will eventually catch up with me
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sleeping for 10 hours is a bit long. I know that when I sleep for 10 hours I feel pretty tired all day, and I think most people are the same way. Maybe try setting your alarm to wake you up 7-8 hours after you plan on falling asleep.

When I've got no reason to be up at a certain time I'll usually just keep hitting the snooze button over and over again. Those are the days that I sleep a long time. So maybe you could start planning your schedule so that you do things earlier in the day, so that you'll force yourself to wake up on less sleep. Sleeping too much is actually not healthy for you, believe it or not. It also might be a symptom of minor depression...
 

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Originally posted by diablo
If you're getting to sleep at 11pm, you don't have insomnia. It sounds like you're getting a full 10 hours of sleep in each night - the problem likely lies in your activity level or diet, not any medical condition that you have. You may wish to start working out regularly if you haven't already, as well as begin eating right.

Insomnia is characterized as being an inability to fall asleep - and is not a disease in and of itself. Even if you weren't able to fall asleep (had insomnia), it would be a symptom of an underlying condition which would mean you probably would need to visit a psychologist. However, since you don't have it, you don't - I hope?
I do sports almost everyday, two days a week weights and three times Muay Thai.

How exactly do activitylevel and diet affect my sleep habits?
 

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if none of the common sense things work out for you, you might want to talk to your doctor, and perhaps see a sleep specialist. If this is something that has plagued you your whole life, it could very well be a disorder of some type. If it is something that has only sprung up recently, it is most likely psychological, and simple things like getting 8 hours of sleep, not drinking coffee/coke, etc. will eventually get you back to where you need to be.

EDIT: Some helpful websites with active forums:
www.talkaboutsleep.com
www.sleepnet.com
 
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