I do not know about you guys... but this is getting entertaining.
Well everyone has a past. and frankly, the bf doesnt want to know about all of it. would you want to know what your gf did with other guys in the past?
Of course I would want to know what my acquaintances have done in the past (I do not do relationships)... why would I not? How can you
completely accept a person, if you do not know where they came from... or what they did previously. Besides... if I know what she has done in the past... we can repeat it in the future.
If you really want to know, i've slept with 10 guys, had a threesome and anal sex. I want to wait with my boyfriend (even though we've had sex before) because it'll be more special on our wedding night.
Jesus L. Christ... I am really starting to feel sorry for you sugar. I apologize ahead of time for the disappointment that your wedding night will bring you. You will
want to believe in your brain that it will be an amazing experience... it does not happen that way sugar. It
sounds good in theory... but you and your boyfriend "waiting" is an insult to both of you. If you guys love each other
that much... why wait? In your mind... you guys are already married (marriage is merely legalities) so even though it does not state that on a sheet of paper... in your mind you guys are married. So just go ahead... do it. Unless of course (and perhaps I am just assuming here) there exists
alternative reasons.
Casual sex, with the use of contraception, is useless in the biological standpoint. If youre trying to prevent conception, then sex without the want to create new life is pointless (in the biological standpoint). It is for mere pleasure. What i was saying is that most women can go without physical sex for pleasure. And some people dont even want to procreate.
Unbelievable... gentlemen of the jury... we have just witnessed yet another moment of blantant contradiction. You are absolutely right sugar... sex with a contraceptive means is absolutely useless as far as procreation goes... but from someone who has slept with ten men, engaged in a threesome (fun right!
) and has engaged in anal sex (no chance of procreation there) you and I both know that sex as a recreational practice is not useless (and quite healthy). Moreover, let us be realistic sugar... when you and Mr. Army Man become married, you will not have sex
all the time solely for the purpose of child rearing... you could not even type that to me with a straight face. Men can do the same as women sugar... for there exists many other things in life that give me (writing, reading, magic, cooking... just to name a few) that give me pleasure. But why deny yourself the pleasure of sex? For what reason?
and my fiance is twice the man that everyone here is, is because i think of him in that way. YOU might not think that, but I love him, and to me, he will always outshine ANY ma
You honestly believe that... beyond a shadow of a doubt? Sugar... you must not know about probability laws do you? Last time I checked, there exists over 3.8
billion men on this planet. Probability assumes then that in
your eyes you have the strong possibility to find a man that
is better that your future husband. This is not an attempt to knock him (I am sure he is a great human being) but I am merely speaking about probability. You
will meet another man who will make your heart skip a beat... you
will meet another man that you will give a second thought... I am warning you of this now... so
when it happens you can say to yourself, "Damn... that crazy man on the internet was right."
And, Sammo, I know what this site is about. I said i observed MANY guys only coming here for sex tips. At least, thats only what i see.
That right there is an insult to Sammo, myself and everyone else that comes here sugar. This place... is
much more than that. If you have not observed anything differently... I can take you on a tour myself. Heck... I can name posters of the top of my head (Pook, myself, Smooth As Anything, Jester... just to name a few) who never (or barely) bring up anything sexual in this place. I suggest you do some more reading... before you make anymore judgments.
its hard for BOTH of us to wait, because, well we are in love and it does seem the natural thing to do.
That is because it
is the natural thing to do... by denying each other... you are only insulting each other and wasting each other's time.
But you know what? we're both in college. I want to get my Master's Degree and study abroad in Italy for a year. He's going to Kosovo (hes being activated) for 18 months at the end of this year. Part of the reason why we're abstining is because if I got pregnant, all MY plans would be shot to sh1t. He'd STILL go to Kosovo, and the last thing we both want is to have a baby right now. Yes, I am on birth control pills but its not 100%. there is still that tiny chance they will fail. And abstainance is the ONLY 100% way we wont be getting married early and having a baby. And yeah, that may seem like i'm the dominant one, but it would be mainly ME who gets ****ed over. I'd be not going to school, pregnant, and possibly with a husband overseas for 18 months. Pretty sucky, huh?
So if you two want to accomplish all of things... why be together in the first place? Honestly... you two a better off being seperated until both have completed said goals. By being together now... you are only denying each other. You guys are not having sex (which if it is hard for you to do not do... it must be more important to both of you than you originally lead on). And... wait a second... am I hearing a little self-indulgence in your pathos sugar? Quite the turn on... (I love self-indulgent people) Did you read what you type? Ha... you even put
my and me in all caps to emphasize them. So this relationship is in actuality all about you huh? I understand because I am the same way. However... you should do yourself a favor and pass that memo along to Mr. Army Man. Moreover... all of the above is interesting to me simply because the whole abstinence deal has come into play with him... but not with the others. What changed sugar?
he is twice the man you are because he's willing to see how I look at things, and take me into the picture, and not constantly think about sex because he too, doenst want to end up in that situation.
No... he is twice the man that we are because he is more than willing to kiss your ass at a moment's notice.
Rarely have I heard anything positive about women on this site. Its just about the physical feeling, never emotional. Its almost as if most of you disregard the intense emotional part of sex. You just want to "bag" women to satisfy your craving.
Man... my teacher was right when she said assumptions only make an ass out of everyone. Personally... I love women (granted many of them are deluded... but I love them anyway) and what you have to understand sugar is that many men that come here are bitter. They have been hurt by women in the past. That is probably why you do not hear many positive things about women here... it is because a lot of men here do not favor women at the moment (something many of us hope to change).
Okay... I have engaged in enough entertainment for the morning (plus... I have to be at work soon) so in closing I say this. Honestly sugar... I or most of us are not here to give you a hard time (especially me... I welcomed you for Christ's sakes) however, I strongly suggest (for here and your personal life) that you take time to just look. Jester was right when he said that you are looking at things in tunnel vision... not the way to live sugar. Honestly... (even though Mr. Army Man thinks we are pathetic... silly rabbit) I think you will learn a lot more from this place than you originally believed. But... do not listen to a crazy person like myself... just see for yourself. Click a couple of those stickies at the top of the page... and give them a read. See for yourself.
Ciao Bella...
