"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Insight into Female Behavior

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You know, I was just thinking about this this morning.

There is no honor among humans. People lie. A lot.

It's just something we have to accept and figure out how to you use to your advantage.

Number one being never believe anyone.
Humans are the only animals capable of lying. Something for us to all remember.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Humans are the only animals capable of lying. Something for us to all remember.
Yeah, "animals" is they key word here. It all started with one lie.
 

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I'm confused. Is she exclusive/committed/verbal acknowledgment of monogamy with the other guy? Our are they just getting to know each other? From the initial post, it seemed like it was a "budding" situation.

How is her behavior any different from the spinning plates mindset advocated here. If she going off with Doug is classified as "women change course", are emotional and can't be loyal, what are guys classified as when they spin plates?

Surely this isn't a double standard? Im confused. Did I miss something?
 

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Normal female behavior. Nothing new here folks. Women are emotional... they go with that. This is why long distant relationships never work with women. They just can't do it. Out of sight out of mind. The first time a guy comes around that knows how to push her buttons loyalty ends. This is a fact.
The truth and nothing more then that.
 

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Though I appreciate the contradiction, in her defense, until she's had the exclusivity talk with one bloke or another, she owes no one anything, just as her 'plates' don't either.

The simple answer is that she's living a red pill promiscuity herself, but still harbouring blue pill ideologies of exclusivity.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm confused. Is she exclusive/committed/verbal acknowledgment of monogamy with the other guy? Our are they just getting to know each other? From the initial post, it seemed like it was a "budding" situation.

How is her behavior any different from the spinning plates mindset advocated here. If she going off with Doug is classified as "women change course", are emotional and can't be loyal, what are guys classified as when they spin plates?

Surely this isn't a double standard? Im confused. Did I miss something?
We got called out.

I don't touch plates, they give me hugs, but that's as far as it goes. For now. :cool:
 

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Not like that though. Have you ever knew someone who lied when they didn't even have to? That's different than the occasional lie. Some lie at all times.
My ex wife lied all of the time. Even about things that didn't mater. She liked to add drama.
 

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My ex wife lied all of the time. Even about things that didn't mater. She liked to add drama.
When a woman cares about her entertainment more than your feelings and well being she will lie, fabricate, and falsly accuse because she knows there are no consequences to her actions.
 

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When a woman cares about her entertainment more than your feelings and well being she will lie, fabricate, and falsly accuse because she knows there are no consequences to her actions.
And this is the case 99.9% of the time. Watch how women behave on vacations (from you). Women are like robots that react to light and sound. They can be reprogrammed at any time by anyone who knows what they are doing. They are too volatile to trust. And the worst part is, if you don't have another girl as hot as her as an option, she will exploit the situation. It starts out great, as they cheat on someone else with you. But then it's your turn. Have a backup plan.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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