Humans are the only animals capable of lying. Something for us to all remember.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifehunter
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Yeah, "animals" is they key word here. It all started with one lie.
sazc
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I'm confused. Is she exclusive/committed/verbal acknowledgment of monogamy with the other guy? Our are they just getting to know each other? From the initial post, it seemed like it was a "budding" situation.
How is her behavior any different from the spinning plates mindset advocated here. If she going off with Doug is classified as "women change course", are emotional and can't be loyal, what are guys classified as when they spin plates?
Surely this isn't a double standard? Im confused. Did I miss something?
How is her behavior any different from the spinning plates mindset advocated here. If she going off with Doug is classified as "women change course", are emotional and can't be loyal, what are guys classified as when they spin plates?
Surely this isn't a double standard? Im confused. Did I miss something?
TheGambino
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The truth and nothing more then that.
TheMonkeyKing
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Though I appreciate the contradiction, in her defense, until she's had the exclusivity talk with one bloke or another, she owes no one anything, just as her 'plates' don't either.
The simple answer is that she's living a red pill promiscuity herself, but still harbouring blue pill ideologies of exclusivity.
The simple answer is that she's living a red pill promiscuity herself, but still harbouring blue pill ideologies of exclusivity.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
wifehunter
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We got called out.
I don't touch plates, they give me hugs, but that's as far as it goes. For now.
dustmuffin
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My ex wife lied all of the time. Even about things that didn't mater. She liked to add drama.
When a woman cares about her entertainment more than your feelings and well being she will lie, fabricate, and falsly accuse because she knows there are no consequences to her actions.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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This is the simplest way to explain women.
And this is the case 99.9% of the time. Watch how women behave on vacations (from you). Women are like robots that react to light and sound. They can be reprogrammed at any time by anyone who knows what they are doing. They are too volatile to trust. And the worst part is, if you don't have another girl as hot as her as an option, she will exploit the situation. It starts out great, as they cheat on someone else with you. But then it's your turn. Have a backup plan.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.