"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Inside the mind: ideas and advice from the other post

GrimPhallic

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I read the article 'Inside the mind:*' and thought to myself for a bit... and determined the following key points:

1. Know yourself
2. Love yourself
3. Know you are the best value
4. Control your emotions (master them)

These four points seem to stand out the most to me. The real question is, how do you accomplish all this? Most of us who are or have dated lose focus and thus forget who we are. We let things interfere with these key factors. Some of us may have never accomplished these things. I think we should discuss tactics on how to accomplish these. I am a very smart person, but I can’t for the fukk of me figure out how to accomplish some of these.

I don’t stay single long, so I honestly don’t think I know myself. I’ve been with chick after chick and have had several LTRs. Should I be single and ignore women all together for 40 days and 40 nights lol? I honestly don’t know what to do to find and love myself. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate myself, and I am a very ****y person, but I feel lost all the time. Like I don’t belong… And this definitely affects my approaches and such with chicks. I know I’m good value but I can’t feel like I’m the best value unless I can accomplish the first two. The last is the hardest by far. I have fukked up emotions. I have tried and have never succeeded in controlling them. I get attached quickly, and the thing I hate the most is when I am attached or recently broke up, I have trouble keeping my c0ck hard with randoms. Can we please discuss technique on how to accomplish all four points above?

Austin
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'd listen to the blue print from RSD
 

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i think you are just having fun, as you get older you begin to question things more. Wisdom creeps in when the mind opens.

SOCIAL ARTIST (AKA PICKUP ARTIST) is a way of life, not just about seducing women. After awhile, once U master the skills, Getting the chic is the easy part, so you are reaching your maximum potential.........once U seduced all the women.........you come to a point and wonder "IS THIS ALL THERE IS?".

IT may be time to enhance the other aspects of your life (job, career, new car, bigger bank account, your residence, higher education, working out goals, maybe even finding the ONE.........ultimately writing your own book, producing your own program, designing your own tactic or principle....basically teaching others).
 
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