"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Inside the mind: ideas and advice from the other post

GrimPhallic

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I read the article 'Inside the mind:*' and thought to myself for a bit... and determined the following key points:

1. Know yourself
2. Love yourself
3. Know you are the best value
4. Control your emotions (master them)

These four points seem to stand out the most to me. The real question is, how do you accomplish all this? Most of us who are or have dated lose focus and thus forget who we are. We let things interfere with these key factors. Some of us may have never accomplished these things. I think we should discuss tactics on how to accomplish these. I am a very smart person, but I can’t for the fukk of me figure out how to accomplish some of these.

I don’t stay single long, so I honestly don’t think I know myself. I’ve been with chick after chick and have had several LTRs. Should I be single and ignore women all together for 40 days and 40 nights lol? I honestly don’t know what to do to find and love myself. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t hate myself, and I am a very ****y person, but I feel lost all the time. Like I don’t belong… And this definitely affects my approaches and such with chicks. I know I’m good value but I can’t feel like I’m the best value unless I can accomplish the first two. The last is the hardest by far. I have fukked up emotions. I have tried and have never succeeded in controlling them. I get attached quickly, and the thing I hate the most is when I am attached or recently broke up, I have trouble keeping my c0ck hard with randoms. Can we please discuss technique on how to accomplish all four points above?

Austin
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd listen to the blue print from RSD
 

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i think you are just having fun, as you get older you begin to question things more. Wisdom creeps in when the mind opens.

SOCIAL ARTIST (AKA PICKUP ARTIST) is a way of life, not just about seducing women. After awhile, once U master the skills, Getting the chic is the easy part, so you are reaching your maximum potential.........once U seduced all the women.........you come to a point and wonder "IS THIS ALL THERE IS?".

IT may be time to enhance the other aspects of your life (job, career, new car, bigger bank account, your residence, higher education, working out goals, maybe even finding the ONE.........ultimately writing your own book, producing your own program, designing your own tactic or principle....basically teaching others).
 
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