AFC-Murdaz
Senior Don Juan
im just having a lil trouble, i could prepare, feel good and admir myself at home in the mirror but when i go outside, i start to get scared, what could i do?
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im just having a lil trouble, i could prepare, feel good and admir myself at home in the mirror but when i go outside, i start to get scared, what could i do?
It's all about confidence in your self. Self-esteem also. Find out what it is that makes you feel so insecure. Could be fear of rejection or something else. At any rate, start changing all that negitive internal dialogue into positive. It's what you say to yourself that matters.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
True confidence takes awhile to get...Take your time and youll be good...
AFC-Murdaz
Senior Don Juan
well i guess its that at home im isolated, i feel good
but when i go outside, i see competition, well not competition but you know, like everybody's got some friend and im all alone even though i might dress and look good
but when i go outside, i see competition, well not competition but you know, like everybody's got some friend and im all alone even though i might dress and look good
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
You gotta get out more...Originally posted by AFC-Murdaz
well i guess its that at home im isolated, i feel good
but when i go outside, i see competition, well not competition but you know, like everybody's got some friend and im all alone even though i might dress and look good
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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AFC-Murdaz
Senior Don Juan
sorry maybe im still a afc
but
go out and do what? smiling isn't just working my confidence
sometime i go out with nearly no purpose
im still on the first week of the boot camp, i go out, smile, smile smile, but when you or they want me to talk, DOH, my voice shiver
i guess i have conversation problem too
thesynergist
Don Juan
That's why BC is in Stages. Just force yourself to say "hi" and smile at everyone you walk by when you're out (particuliarly HB's). If you actually do it, your confidence WILL increase.
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Do you have a job? When I was younger, it was hard to speak to people sometimes, but when I started working, I had to talk with random people all the time, so I got better at it...Originally posted by AFC-Murdaz
sorry maybe im still a afc
but
go out and do what? smiling isn't just working my confidence
sometime i go out with nearly no purpose
im still on the first week of the boot camp, i go out, smile, smile smile, but when you or they want me to talk, DOH, my voice shiver
i guess i have conversation problem too
AFC-Murdaz
Senior Don Juan
sorry if im not getting it, whats bc?
so i should force myself to say hi to EVERYBODY i see? i can do that but... isn't that pulling something here?
what about conversation? i also have trouble with that as well.
i have no job, i am currently in high school and they wont let me find a job
AFC-Murdaz
Senior Don Juan
im a junior, they say only sophomore, incoming freshmen can join
i tried that already
i think its best if you assume im a grown up with no job..
now im afraid
i hate growing up becuz theres nearlly no time