"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Insecurities on kissing

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Ive never kissed a girl before and thinking about it makes me nervous. I don't know how its supposed to be done. When I kiss her do I use my tongue? When do I use the tongue? How should I use it? How should my lips be? etc. etc.. Can anyone give me advise it will be greatly appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you 're in high school refrain from asking. The whole fun in kissing is doing it the first time very weird and doing stuff wrong.

If you're not in high school refrain from asking the people hear since most of them are like the shezzler who are just online wannabes.
 

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lol man i know what you mean I kinda thought the same thing when I was younger...but it really aint hard, you just both move your heads right or left....put ur lips together, kiss, then after a minute or so use your tongue...or something similar. good luck

PS....why do ppl not like shezzler? it aint cos hes british surely. and how would you know whos a wannabe or not n00b? some people ey?....muppet
 

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Use your lips more than your tongue, and don't move your tongue too fast.
 

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PS....why do ppl not like shezzler? it aint cos hes british surely. and how would you know whos a wannabe or not n00b? some people ey?....muppet
Read his posts. You'll see.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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man i cant be arsed reading his posts, but he seems ok...could u give me an example?
 

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ah man thats just a night out in the city for a lotta UK guys...wots the problem?
 

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well, guys practice having sex with their hands, may as well start practicing kissing with it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by L777
ah man thats just a night out in the city for a lotta UK guys...wots the problem?
If you just read the words and accept them, than that's what you'd get. It's not hard to post crap and claim it's true. You know how they say, body language is more important than what you say. Look at the way it is said.

Read the first paragraph in his post. Read it a couple times. Do you notice something odd about his choice of diction?

so u don't belive 32 approaches could be done in 2 days??
No I think it's possible. I think when you produce a direct number, than you're bull****ting. No one counts.

hmm..... can I ask you another question.... well I dont care if I can or cant.... Have you posted any sound advice or FR's yet??
Probably because I don't care about your well being or anyone elses here. Why would I document my night life and make long ass posts for online d-bags?
 

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Well am just gona ask you one more question and then stop responding to this.. because arguing over the internet as i said before is pointless and it only serves to feed the "b!tch". So sense you don't care about any "d-bags" on this site, or bother to contribute, then why are you on this site then? Are you a just a "b!tch" KBJ? or if you just came here to this site like the rest of us to learn more about "improving" yourself or attracting women ... if you are then you are reading materials posted by the "d-bags" you don't care about. hmm seem's kind of contridictory don't it?..... o yeah but then again u just seem like a KBJ to me... all you do is flame and "b!tch" instead of supporting and contributing.

-My appologies to the ppl on this site my last 35 or so posts have been just flame posts... or feeding the damn KBJ'S or flamers. So this will be my last FLAME or "FEEDING" post I will make. IF I break it feel free to "b!tch" slap me.

-"Knowing when to stop is what seperates a DJ from the rest" Thx for that one Franciso :)

-Sinisa
 

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lol chrisman that first paragraph is just being well-written, ie good at describing situations with more than one sylablle words...if u kno wot i mean. trust me i got this mate whos posh and writes like that all the time, but even more exxagerated, and its just funny, and he tells the truth.
i wholeheartedly believe shezzler and i reckon wotever u got against him u need 2 just forget...id happily go clubbin with him he seems cool
 

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Well am just gona ask you one more question and then stop responding to this
Why ask if you're going to stop responding?

So sense you don't care about any "d-bags" on this site, or bother to contribute, then why are you on this site then?
For my own personal entertainment. Isn't it obvious?

Are you a just a "b!tch" KBJ? or if you just came here to this site like the rest of us to learn more about "improving" yourself or attracting women ... if you are then you are reading materials posted by the "d-bags" you don't care about. hmm seem's kind of contridictory don't it?.
Yes it is contradictory, but than again, you pulled that scenerio out of your ass.

yeah but then again u just seem like a KBJ to me... all you do is flame and "b!tch" instead of supporting and contributing.
Not sure what a KBJ is.

My appologies to the ppl on this site my last 35 or so posts have been just flame posts... or feeding the damn KBJ'S or flamers. So this will be my last FLAME or "FEEDING" post I will make. IF I break it feel free to "b!tch" slap me.
lol.

lol chrisman that first paragraph is just being well-written, ie good at describing situations with more than one sylablle words...if u kno wot i mean. trust me i got this mate whos posh and writes like that all the time, but even more exxagerated, and its just funny, and he tells the truth.
i wholeheartedly believe shezzler and i reckon wotever u got against him u need 2 just forget...id happily go clubbin with him he seems cool
I'm sure you do believe it. The insecure always need something to cling too.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chrisman, you starting to sound more and more like a troll.
 

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Originally posted by The Juan and only
Chrisman, you starting to sound more and more like a troll.
Wow. Did you just figure that out?:crackup:
 

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Originally posted by Logen
Chrisman, you need to get laid man.
:crackup:

Either that or come out of the closet. He wants Shezzlers c0ck baaad!
 

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ahh grow up man, you should try actually sleeping with a girl...you'd feel better
 

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Originally posted by L777
ahh grow up man, you should try actually sleeping with a girl...you'd feel better
You've shattered my ego. Carl Jung is going to be pissed if I can't get it back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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