"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Could she have said it because she was uncomfortable in the situation and because she couldn't control it by making you fix it she became even more uncomfortable?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Try to find out what's going through your girl's head (easier said than done). In the meantime you have an idea what she'll do if you try to assert yourself around you so called friend, keep her out of such situations. If she can't stay away just go off someplace else with her when he starts his routine. Until then it'll help to ask her how she felt when all of that was going on. It'll give you some insight on what really needs to be done.
 
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