"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Insanity/P90X + Strength Training

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Hey guys. I’ve really been improving my cardio in combination with lifting weights to make getting shredded even easier. I’m at the point where I’m running a 5K decently comfortably.

Another one of my fitness goals has been to complete a round of Insanity and P90X. It would burn off a good amount of fat, and make me feel good about myself.

However, I’m also following Athlean-X’s Old School Iron lifting program. To maintain my muscle and look good, I need to continue lifting weights and consume enough protein(.5-1 G per pound of bodyweight.)

So, I can’t stop the strength training. I was wondering if I could do the lifting program, and then add in Insanity/P90X for some additional cardio for my deficit? Will that be too much to recover from? Or can I do it? I’d really like to complete both of these programs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That’s too much volume. You should maintain muscle fine on insanity or p90x. Focus on that if you want to cut.
Yeah I thought so. Recovering from both would be really difficult.

Thanks for the reassurance. I was just worried I’d lose boatloads of muscle since when I start Insanity I won’t be under heavy squats bench and deadlift.

Speaking of recovery, when I switch over to Insanity, am I able to still throw in a couple runs a week? Just because I enjoy it: helps clear my mind and eliminate some of the stress of school.
 
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