"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok long story short, I have been seeing this girl, 10 years younger than me, for the past few months we get along great but her ex is still in the pic he calls daily and not just one time a bunch. It seems alittle disrespectful for her to keep telling him to stop calling but still answer the phone and talk. So I told her when she got all the drama worked out to give me a call, she said that she understood and that she enjoyed being with me but didnt want to rush into anything(me either) and that she understood that I didnt want to waste my time....blah blah and that she wouldnt call anymore and that she hoped to hear from me sometime? Should I even respond or just not contact her at all and see what happens

After I told her that she said she had a long talk with him last night and told him to leave her alone for awhile??

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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overit said:
Ok long story short, I have been seeing this girl, 10 years younger than me, for the past few months we get along great but her ex is still in the pic he calls daily and not just one time a bunch. It seems alittle disrespectful for her to keep telling him to stop calling but still answer the phone and talk. So I told her when she got all the drama worked out to give me a call, she said that she understood and that she enjoyed being with me but didnt want to rush into anything(me either) and that she understood that I didnt want to waste my time....blah blah and that she wouldnt call anymore and that she hoped to hear from me sometime? Should I even respond or just not contact her at all and see what happens

After I told her that she said she had a long talk with him last night and told him to leave her alone for awhile??

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I think you havent made the best decisions and trusted her too much. He wouldnt be ringing constantly unless she answered sometimes and gave him a conversation.

When i started seeing my gf her x kept ringing, She wouldnt answer out of respect for me and claimed that she didnt answer when i was away, Instead of pondering over whether to trust her or not, I dictated a text message i wanted her to send him, the jist of the text was 'fvck off out of my life' lmao and he hasnt rang her since.


Anyway i think youve let it drag on too much and have probably lost her, but you could try to dominate the frames and controll her into cutting him off.
 
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True, I may try to dominate but I'm not sure if I even want to bother..:crazy:
 
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