"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok long story short, I have been seeing this girl, 10 years younger than me, for the past few months we get along great but her ex is still in the pic he calls daily and not just one time a bunch. It seems alittle disrespectful for her to keep telling him to stop calling but still answer the phone and talk. So I told her when she got all the drama worked out to give me a call, she said that she understood and that she enjoyed being with me but didnt want to rush into anything(me either) and that she understood that I didnt want to waste my time....blah blah and that she wouldnt call anymore and that she hoped to hear from me sometime? Should I even respond or just not contact her at all and see what happens

After I told her that she said she had a long talk with him last night and told him to leave her alone for awhile??

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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overit said:
Ok long story short, I have been seeing this girl, 10 years younger than me, for the past few months we get along great but her ex is still in the pic he calls daily and not just one time a bunch. It seems alittle disrespectful for her to keep telling him to stop calling but still answer the phone and talk. So I told her when she got all the drama worked out to give me a call, she said that she understood and that she enjoyed being with me but didnt want to rush into anything(me either) and that she understood that I didnt want to waste my time....blah blah and that she wouldnt call anymore and that she hoped to hear from me sometime? Should I even respond or just not contact her at all and see what happens

After I told her that she said she had a long talk with him last night and told him to leave her alone for awhile??

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I think you havent made the best decisions and trusted her too much. He wouldnt be ringing constantly unless she answered sometimes and gave him a conversation.

When i started seeing my gf her x kept ringing, She wouldnt answer out of respect for me and claimed that she didnt answer when i was away, Instead of pondering over whether to trust her or not, I dictated a text message i wanted her to send him, the jist of the text was 'fvck off out of my life' lmao and he hasnt rang her since.


Anyway i think youve let it drag on too much and have probably lost her, but you could try to dominate the frames and controll her into cutting him off.
 
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True, I may try to dominate but I'm not sure if I even want to bother..:crazy:
 
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