Inner game or outer game.

[El Payaso]

Which one attracts women better?

 

[VikingKing]

Which one attracts women better?

Inner for sure. Outer game is like pua stuff. Its almost kind of being fake. But I'm not sure how you personally define the two.

Honestly I look at it as outer game is how you start and after it just becomes natural for you it becomes inner game.

 

[LondonTowers]

Perfected inner game makes you a natural.. hence you automatically have outer game like a reflex. But as most of us didn't grow in an environment that gave us that we tend to work from the outside in. Hence learning how to act as a natural.. which is what all outer game is. But once you start doing that it begins to rub off onto your inner game in many different ways. A kind of feedback loop occurs with the outer word and inner psyche. The goal in the end is perfected inner game.

 

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Silly question. One has no outer game without inner game. Outer game without inner is just a house of cards just waiting to be blown over.

 

[mangotot]

Silly question. One has no outer game without inner game. Outer game without inner is just a house of cards just waiting to be blown over.

This. But that doesn't mean if your inner game is not right, stay indoors. Get out anyway, sorting out outer game techniques can help with inner game too.

 

[Mr Wright]

Silly question. One has no outer game without inner game. Outer game without inner is just a house of cards just waiting to be blown over.

Not true, I've seen tons of guys who hate themselves and otherwise are f*cked up in every sense of the word but have money from their family, flash it around a bit and get laid.

 

[mangotot]

Not true, I've seen tons of guys who hate themselves and otherwise are f*cked up in every sense of the word but have money from their family, flash it around a bit and get laid.

What a dumb thing to write. If they have money they are sorted aren't they? You could even be a criminal but if you don't get caught you are totally OK. These guys certainly fill in the money and possibly the status side of the equation. They are tonnes of people who hate themselves, fuucked up in the head and have self esteem issues but have no problems hooking up. One guy I know who fits this bill is a sex addict he has no problems getting attractive women. The only people with problems getting hold of women is puas.

 

[Mr Wright]

What a dumb thing to write. If they have money they are sorted aren't they? You could even be a criminal but if you don't get caught you are totally OK. These guys certainly fill in the money and possibly the status side of the equation. They are tonnes of people who hate themselves, fuucked up in the head and have self esteem issues but have no problems hooking up. One guy I know who fits this bill is a sex addict he has no problems getting attractive women. The only people with problems getting hold of women is puas.

How is it stupid? If your family has money how does that make you a well balanced person internally? They have no control over that money.

There are plenty of guys who might have LMS but still hate themselves and get laid...sooo is outer game and all the superficial stuff important? Hell yes it is, you can't just say if you don't have inner game you can't have outer game because you even see it with puas. Some of them get laid through whatever means but inside their empty because they can't really show the girls who they really are. I think you misunderstood what I meant.

 

[mangotot]

^ I know a few characters who get laid lots with hot chicks but have self esteem issues. The psychology of their mental health being is not troubled when it comes to socialising and meeting women, its extended in other ways. One is an alcoholic all the women he meets get to know that and in fact he pulls women that compliment his self esteem (or lack of). So in fact they get to know quite well even if the whole thing might be unhealthy. Its really only pua types who have self esteem problems when it comes to getting it on with women.

Anyway all of this is just mental mastuurabation

 

[salinechow]

Outer game pulls, inner game retains.

 

[mikey2012]

Inner game can be summed up: always be willing to walk away.

 

[backbeat]

look if u dont have the inner game to get ur sh@t done man ur outer game aint gonna do sh@t for u. u cant look cool as f@ck on the outside man but when ur a p@ssy @ss b@tch on the inside what the f@ck u gonna do when sum tight @ss b@tch starts runnin sum game on yo @ss?

Outer for sure

bein n inner beta helps u with chicks? lol