"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Inner Game - Define It In A Nutshell!

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Okay...I've read loads of articles on SS & BL rgarding the INNER GAME.

But I'm still having difficulty defining Inner Game or what it is exactly.

So can anyone define the term "INNER GAME" in a nutshell....In a few sentences....

Thanks

I think I have a fairly good idea what it is but I just want assurance from you DJ's out there.

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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the inner game is about clearing all those negative beliefs and attitudes anchored deep inside you.
It's about changing your negative beliefs on life, events, people, everything, reframing them, changing what is wrong with you and finally, mastering your emotions, be in control of your emotions and not be their slave.
Once you worked on your inner game, your attitude will change and what emanates from you will also change, changing therefore the perception of others of you.
 

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It's about having the confidence to state your real age and risking getting your message moved to the general discussion.
 
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