Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Inner Game - Define It In A Nutshell!

JJ007

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Okay...I've read loads of articles on SS & BL rgarding the INNER GAME.

But I'm still having difficulty defining Inner Game or what it is exactly.

So can anyone define the term "INNER GAME" in a nutshell....In a few sentences....

Thanks

I think I have a fairly good idea what it is but I just want assurance from you DJ's out there.

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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a difficult guy

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the inner game is about clearing all those negative beliefs and attitudes anchored deep inside you.
It's about changing your negative beliefs on life, events, people, everything, reframing them, changing what is wrong with you and finally, mastering your emotions, be in control of your emotions and not be their slave.
Once you worked on your inner game, your attitude will change and what emanates from you will also change, changing therefore the perception of others of you.
 

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It's about having the confidence to state your real age and risking getting your message moved to the general discussion.
 
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