"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Inner Game - Define It In A Nutshell!

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Okay...I've read loads of articles on SS & BL rgarding the INNER GAME.

But I'm still having difficulty defining Inner Game or what it is exactly.

So can anyone define the term "INNER GAME" in a nutshell....In a few sentences....

Thanks

I think I have a fairly good idea what it is but I just want assurance from you DJ's out there.

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the inner game is about clearing all those negative beliefs and attitudes anchored deep inside you.
It's about changing your negative beliefs on life, events, people, everything, reframing them, changing what is wrong with you and finally, mastering your emotions, be in control of your emotions and not be their slave.
Once you worked on your inner game, your attitude will change and what emanates from you will also change, changing therefore the perception of others of you.
 

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It's about having the confidence to state your real age and risking getting your message moved to the general discussion.
 
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