"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Inner calm

CaptFinnBad

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You know the feeling you have after having se x with really hot girl for the first time, you know when you're driving home , good song on the radio, the would just seems to slow down, your mind is blank, and you're feeling pretty damb good about yourself. You're pretty full if yourself and feeling like one co cky basta rd.

Just one example. Loads of things that envoke those feelings.

I was thinking. For me this state fades I can't really hold onto it, I eventually slip back into the noise, until some external factors invokes that state again.

Well regardless of what caused this state, it's all internal. Your brain is causing it.

I thinking it's more than mindfulness, it's ****y almost arrogance.

Possibly to change your programming to turn this into your default or wishful thinking?

I think.it might be more than mindfulness. Could be wrong.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lol I think the same can also be said when your tidying stuff around your house and putting things in order.

Once you're done sweeping the floors and doing your chores you have a sense of accomplishment....but it still gotta be done regardless.
 

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You know the feeling you have after having se x with really hot girl for the first time, you know when you're driving home , good song on the radio, the would just seems to slow down, your mind is blank, and you're feeling pretty damb good about yourself. You're pretty full if yourself and feeling like one co cky basta rd.

A sensation immortalized in song not long ago
 

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You know the feeling you have after having se x with really hot girl for the first time, you know when you're driving home , good song on the radio, the would just seems to slow down, your mind is blank, and you're feeling pretty damb good about yourself. You're pretty full if yourself and feeling like one co cky basta rd.

Just one example. Loads of things that envoke those feelings.

I was thinking. For me this state fades I can't really hold onto it, I eventually slip back into the noise, until some external factors invokes that state again.

Well regardless of what caused this state, it's all internal. Your brain is causing it.

I thinking it's more than mindfulness, it's ****y almost arrogance.

Possibly to change your programming to turn this into your default or wishful thinking?

I think.it might be more than mindfulness. Could be wrong.
I know what you mean and it’s pure bliss! When I feel this is when I have my **** together; aka doing work (job) that I like, things going my way and having a girl on call !! Haha .

It’s been a month and nothing going on my way other than job which is making me depressed :(

I’m really eyeing one store that I cannot get hold of which is making me depressed! I didn’t know my work can cause this much lol.
 
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