"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know the feeling you have after having se x with really hot girl for the first time, you know when you're driving home , good song on the radio, the would just seems to slow down, your mind is blank, and you're feeling pretty damb good about yourself. You're pretty full if yourself and feeling like one co cky basta rd.

Just one example. Loads of things that envoke those feelings.

I was thinking. For me this state fades I can't really hold onto it, I eventually slip back into the noise, until some external factors invokes that state again.

Well regardless of what caused this state, it's all internal. Your brain is causing it.

I thinking it's more than mindfulness, it's ****y almost arrogance.

Possibly to change your programming to turn this into your default or wishful thinking?

I think.it might be more than mindfulness. Could be wrong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lol I think the same can also be said when your tidying stuff around your house and putting things in order.

Once you're done sweeping the floors and doing your chores you have a sense of accomplishment....but it still gotta be done regardless.
 

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You know the feeling you have after having se x with really hot girl for the first time, you know when you're driving home , good song on the radio, the would just seems to slow down, your mind is blank, and you're feeling pretty damb good about yourself. You're pretty full if yourself and feeling like one co cky basta rd.

A sensation immortalized in song not long ago
 

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You know the feeling you have after having se x with really hot girl for the first time, you know when you're driving home , good song on the radio, the would just seems to slow down, your mind is blank, and you're feeling pretty damb good about yourself. You're pretty full if yourself and feeling like one co cky basta rd.

Just one example. Loads of things that envoke those feelings.

I was thinking. For me this state fades I can't really hold onto it, I eventually slip back into the noise, until some external factors invokes that state again.

Well regardless of what caused this state, it's all internal. Your brain is causing it.

I thinking it's more than mindfulness, it's ****y almost arrogance.

Possibly to change your programming to turn this into your default or wishful thinking?

I think.it might be more than mindfulness. Could be wrong.
I know what you mean and it’s pure bliss! When I feel this is when I have my **** together; aka doing work (job) that I like, things going my way and having a girl on call !! Haha .

It’s been a month and nothing going on my way other than job which is making me depressed :(

I’m really eyeing one store that I cannot get hold of which is making me depressed! I didn’t know my work can cause this much lol.
 
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